Travelbug: Summer Romance

This blog sometimes moonlights as a travel blog-come-photo album (and I’ve learned that these have actually helped ya’ll plan actual trips of your own!). It offers me an opportunity to share travel wisdom and document my trips so that I can show my uncle that I’m still enjoying (relatively) single life when he asks me where my husband is (it actually worked BTW, he begrudgingly had to admit that I was having a great time being an unmarried heathen when I showed him the pictures). OK let’s go!

Collaborative EavesdroppingMar 25, 2023Mar 25, 2023Leave a comment

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Surrender

I am 30 now and I’ve been waking up in the middle of the night, startled awake by my own giggles. I greet my ancestors every morning now and every so often I sit in the peaceful warm embrace of my great great grandmother’s love. I’m trying to document how I got here and as usual, I’m bringing you along with me, with all the chaos of a stream of consciousness…

Collaborative EavesdroppingDec 11, 2022Jan 2, 2023Leave a comment

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Casual[Cruel]ty

I don’t like writing about medicine if I can help it (ya’ll have asked). But as I start preparing to rejoin the clinical fracas (death by a 1000 cuts) I would like to reflect on power: I think we have a profound misunderstanding of the amount of power we wield over one another as colleagues. The damage we do. I’m going to tell you a tale of casual cruelty that stuck with me longer than it had any right to. But it illustrates my point perfectly *minor details changed for obvious reasons*

Collaborative EavesdroppingAug 15, 2022Dec 11, 2022Leave a comment

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

[Un]made

It’s been super gawky being reborn. Turns out that if you’ve accidentally been using your survival instict as a default function, over time it becomes your standard operating system. It’s been clunky unmaking and remaking myself, rediscovering and improving myself but here’s what I’ve got:

Collaborative EavesdroppingJul 4, 2022Oct 16, 20222 Comments

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Resignation & Retirement

Letters of resignation,
A cathartic overdue reflection. This is not a manual on how to quit. It’s a meditation on what happens when you get caught in the spin cycle of grief (Denial, Depression, Bargaining, Anger, Acceptance) and what happens after each stage of the tussle: a lovely mess.

Collaborative EavesdroppingMar 20, 2022Mar 21, 20223 Comments

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Wrapped Joy 202.2

*Usher Voice *: This is part 2 (and the last post of the year). I’m sharing the things that kept my joy afloat in these murky 2021 waters, it’s also an amalgamation of my favourite things. It’s both plug and light: a reminder that the #QuestForBeauty is attainable even in the darkest of times.

Collaborative EavesdroppingDec 24, 2021Jul 4, 20221 Comment

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Wrapped Joy 202.1

This post is special and not only because I’m sharing the things that provided a life-raft of joy in these murky 2021 waters. It’s an amalgamation of my favourite things on my little corner of the Internet. It’s both plug and light: a reminder that the #QuestForBeauty is attainable even in the darkest of times.

Collaborative EavesdroppingDec 23, 2021Jul 4, 20221 Comment

FriendshipLoveLetters, SheWrites

Friendship love letter VI: Post Mortem

I take friendship seriously and it is a hill I’m willing to die on. Platonic intimacy is what keeps our human cylinders firing and we’ve collectively allowed it to become a secondary function of relationships. Your life partner will love you and do things to and for you that a friend cannot (eg. change your last name or bind your bloodlines) but what they cannot do is fulfill and round out your life the way friends can. Friendship is the prize. Always.

Collaborative EavesdroppingOct 21, 2021Nov 1, 20223 Comments

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Minding & Maintenance

I think I have this idea in my mind that I’m a very laid back person . It’s dawning on me (at an admittedly snail’s pace ) that that’s simply untrue. I mean, there’s a lot that I don’t mind but there’s plenty that I do. And thats the secret: minding is OK!

Collaborative EavesdroppingOct 9, 2021Dec 23, 2021Leave a comment

OneWomansOpinion, SheWrites

Happiness Dare

Dare to be happy, to be you. I dare you (because your life depends on it).
‘I want to be happy‘ said by a toddler sounds innocently profound and all the little human happens to be talking about in that moment is that she’s taking a nap in the sun or getting an extra slice of watermelon. A dare used to be a call to adventure. Be yourself sounded like bogus advice: kante what have I been doing? The simplest terms have become the most complicated.

Collaborative EavesdroppingJun 9, 2021Jun 9, 20212 Comments

Collaborative Eavesdropping

Deep dives with a Black Nerdy Sotho Girl

Tag: InternAdult

Travelbug: Summer Romance

Surrender

Casual[Cruel]ty

[Un]made

Resignation & Retirement

Wrapped Joy 202.2

Wrapped Joy 202.1

Friendship love letter VI: Post Mortem

Minding & Maintenance

Happiness Dare